We have all been told “no”, after interviewing for a position. No matter how well, (or horrible) the interview went, there is always a chance to be rejected. It could be due to someone having more relevant experience, or could simply be that they don’t feel you would fit in well. We get it. It is discouraging. Especially in today’s market, with millions of open jobs, why aren’t you getting chosen? Don’t give up just because you haven’t landed one yet. You will. Getting feedback as to why they decided not to hire you is the first step in changing your “luck”.
Reflect on the interview
Before reaching out, take a minute, and think about how YOU feel the interview went. Did you answer the interviewer’s questions directly? Did you showcase your skills, but still remain humble? Did the interview flow naturally? Were you prepared? If you answered “no” to any of these questions, there is a chance the interview didn’t go as well as you had hoped. These are all important to the interviewer, so it could be the reason why you were rejected.
Ask for Feedback
As much as getting rejected may upset you, it’s not personal. The interviewer may have loved you as a person but felt someone else may be a better fit. Honestly, you should be sending follow-up emails before you even hear back. Check out “Thank-you Emails After Interviewing” to learn more as to why, and how to send one. But if you have heard back, don’t be afraid to send an email and ask why you weren’t selected. This feedback can help you improve your skills, and gives you insight as to things you need to work on. Getting an employer’s honest opinion can let you see things more realistically.
Reflect on feedback
Once you get feedback, take a step back and really think about it. Did they say you weren’t providing direct answers? If so, take some time and do research on questions you may be asked, and articulate what your answer may be. Did you lack confidence? If so, maybe try doing some mock interviews with family or friends to help you get used to the flow of interviews. One way to look at rejection is a door closing. The other way to view it is doors opening for your personal growth.
Rejection is hard. It’s no secret. No one likes being told no, and sometimes, it’s more painful than others. Pick yourself back up, and try again. The opportunities are endless. If you are still waiting to hear back from your interview, check out this blog for signs your interview went well. If you’re still searching, reach out to us here at Franklin Professionals, we may be able to help.
